Dal was a big part of my childhood. Pretty much every time my grandma cooked for us, there was dal. And she cooked for us a lot. My grandma’s Gujarati dal was different than my mom’s.

While mom’s was spicy and comforting, grandma’s dal had a whole different flavor profile. Grandma’s dal was traditional Gujarati food – sweet and spicy and tangy all at the same time.

Grandma has a reputation for being a stern woman. Most people who know her are terrified of her, or were when she was younger. But she has always been incredibly loving with me and my brother.
She cooked for us and secretly slipped us cash on a regular basis. She would even play cards with us for hours on end when we were kids. She taught us how to play cards like adults. There was no letting us win. She expected us to learn the rules and hold our own.

In the same way, Grandma was very strict and traditional when it came to cooking Gujarati food. In traditional Gujarati food, the balance between sweet and spicy and tart is most important.
While my mom and I tend to experiment, often leaving the sugar out of traditional savory dishes, Grandma insisted on the sweet Gujarati style. To her, the sugar is a crucial part of the flavor profile.
Even though she has mellowed slightly now that she is pushing 94, Grandma has very specific tastes and she will tell you if your cooking is not up to par. She doesn’t do much cooking anymore but when she did, she was very particular.
Her kitchen was always sparkling clean. There was no experimenting in her kitchen. She liked things a certain way and that’s exactly how she did them each and every time.

When I think back on Grandma’s cooking, there are two things that stand out: her dal and her stuffed eggplants. I’ll be sure to share her stuffed eggplants another time.
In true Indian style, she never measured anything, everything was done by sight and taste. I’ve attempted to write down the recipe here but it will need some adjusting depending on how spicy your chilies are and the sourness of the ingredients you use.
Originally published on April 14, 2014

Grandma’s Gujarati Dal
Ingredients
- 1 cup split pigeon peas tuvar dal or toor dal
- 4 to 5 pieces kokum or use lemon juice or tamarind, see substitutes in my notes below
- 3 tbsp brown sugar or jaggery
- 1 Serrano chili or to taste
- 1 tsp ginger grated
- 3 tbsp peanuts raw
- 2 tbsp ghee use coconut oil or canola oil to keep it vegan
- ½ tsp mustard seeds
- ½ tsp cumin seeds
- ⅛ tsp fenugreek seeds optional
- ½ tsp turmeric
- ½ tsp chili powder or to taste
- 1 tsp salt or to taste
- big handful chopped cilantro
Instructions
- Rinse the pigeon peas in cold water until the water runs clear (about three times).
- If using an Instant Pot or pressure cooker: cook the pigeon peas and the kokum with 2 1/2 cups water for 9 minutes under high pressure. Quick release when done.
- If you don’t have a pressure cooker: In a large pot (I use my Dutch oven), boil the pigeon peas and kokum in 6 cups water for about 30 minutes, until the peas are soft. (This may take longer if your peas are old. Just cook until the peas have softened.) Keep an eye on the water level. You will probably need to keep adding water. If the water runs low, just add enough so that the water covers the dal but not too much.
- Once the dal is cooked, add 3 cups of water, brown sugar, green chili, ginger, peanuts and salt. Bring to a boil.
- While the dal is boiling, work on the “vaghaar” (tempering). In a small saucepan, heat the 2 tbsp of ghee or oil. When the oil starts to shimmer, add the cumin seeds, mustard seeds, and fenugreek seeds. Let cook for about 10 seconds. There should be a lot of sizzling and popping.
- Add the turmeric and chili powder to the hot oil, stir and immediately pour into the lentils.
- Let the lentils continue to boil for at least 15 minutes. You can boil for up to 45 minutes. Just make sure to add water if you boil longer. The water should just cover the lentils.
- Turn off heat. Stir in the cilantro. Serve warm with rice.
This dal recipe looks fabolous and your pictures of the ingredients and the cooking process look super professional. Good work.
Looks great! I’ll be making this tonight along with some home made parathas.
Hi Mike. I hope you enjoyed your paratha and dal night! 🙂
Dal was great but my parathas need some work more like rotis at the moment. 🙂
Wonderful pics! Look like paitings, and the recipe sounds great as always, too.
Thanks Claudia!
I cooked it tonight – fabulous! Thanks for another great recipe!
Thanks Catherine! I’m so glad you liked it. It’s one of the most nostalgic recipes I know! 🙂
Who wouldn’t fall in love with your Grandma’s version of Dal? 🙂 With tart tomatoes, if you don’t mind throwing a handful of cucumber chunks… Good Lord! You’ll be spell-bounded 🙂
Delicious! Thank you for this wonderful recipe and for sharing! Will be thinking of your grandma whenever I’m cooking this. ^_^)
Thanks, Markus! Grandma loves hearing the comments about her dal recipel 🙂
When you say peanuts in this recipe, do you mean whole or ground? Sorry if that seems like a stupid question.
In today s modern world where everyone leads a fast lifestyle, it is so lovely to hear you describe your grandma fondly.
One can almost picture her in her hey days and I am glad you have penned these thoughts down with us to share and learn about our precious and diverse culture
Been a favorite with us since I first saw it on your web site last February. Thanks for sharing…the recipe as well as your grandma.
Why no garlic?
Re: Carla
Onions and garlic aren’t commonly used in Gujarati cooking, you won’t even miss it 🙂
Hi Carla! Michelle is right. Gujarati food is often made without garlic and onions. Gujarati food and culture is heavily influenced by Jainism. The followers of which do not eat root vegetables as it kills the entire plant. Many Hindu Gujaratis, specifically the followers of Krishna, also do not eat onions and garlic. My great grandmother did not eat onions and garlic and therefore my grandma’s dal does not list them as ingredients.
Dry dates or kharek pieces, suran pieces, roasted peanuts and raw cashew pieces can all be pressure cooked separately and added to the dal. Suran is a root vegetable similar to purple yam and has yellowish color flesh. It is sometimes available in Indian grocery store. Frozen suran is normally always available there.
As an alternative to Kokom, can amchur / dried green mango be used? Or should amchur only be used in Northern Indian dishes?
Thank you For sharing such an amazing Gujarati dal Recipe , I am gonna share it with my mother so that she can cook it for me with love . Indiaphile is amazing too.
I love the story you shared about your grandmother. The cookig way she insists and you keep it and shared, there is very soulful and cherished things inside. It’s one of many things I respect Indian culture and food, since they are continuously transfering to next generation then another generation…it is very beautiful.??
I will try grandmother’s recipe very soon. : )